I agree, at this point, lets just wait for the fork at 21k because that's only 58 blocks away
You must be also careful not to attract to much attention going into the form so a hash rate attack is not deployed to raise the difficulty.
I think after this hard fork, a decision should be make regarding another hard fork and whether to change the block speed, difficulty adjustments etc
There is no reason not to do a hard fork if it will help the coin, and there are many things you can do to make it a popular coin to mine. If its popular to mine, then investor's will want to buy gold which will raise the value, and open doors for the coin.